Who does not get Angry? Different mind sets would react different in a given situation. And similarly, we all express our anger in different ways. We might become absolutely speech less when we are angry or create a hell around us or break all the available furniture and accessories around us, including our Mobile Phones. Anger is a completely normal, usually healthy, human emotion. But when it gets out of control and turns destructive, it can lead to problems—problems at work, in your personal relationships, and in the overall quality of your life. And it can make you feel as though you're at the mercy of an unpredictable and powerful emotion. Let’s find out on ways to control anger, even before it controls us and strains our relationships;
Take a deep and continuous breath. Count up to 50 or imagine your aggressor just naked, only in socks. This will help you to calm and smile.
Have a walk. Look at high sky. Continue to breathe deep and easily. So you appraise the situation and calm down.
Do some physical exercises. When you are angry- your body is very tensed and tough. If you stretch your muscles it will relax your body, as you will spill out all your negative energy into action. Your brains will get more oxygen and it assists to clear your thoughts.
Write down all your thoughts. Write down that you are mad and why. Avoid being rational, logical or laconic. Write on paper all you are feeling this moment. Try to write all in details. The function of this technique is to shift all your anger out of your head on paper.
Be grateful. Find someone to thank. Do you not forget about yourself. Thank that you have woken up today, thank that that the Sun is shining for you, that the sky is blue and the grass is green.
Ask God to be with you during this anger moment and lead you. If you don’t believe in the concept of God, you should atleast believe in the concept of Spirituality and the Super Natural Power creating immense amount of positive energy in us. Then, believe in the same.
Meditation. Close your eyes, look into solar plexus, and be all your anger, breathing deeply.
Change of places. Move yourself on your enemy’s place. And look at situation from his point of view. Better look at the situation from the ceiling. Focus on details, especially on funny and absurd ones. Strive to forgive your enemy as well as forgive truly yourself.
Go back to your childhood memories. Recollect state when you were angry. Hug this child and say: “All is ok. I am here. You are good child. I love you and I will not leave you.”
What is the most significant thing in your life? Who are the most important people in your life? What kind of person do you want to be? Think and accept that point that you are living your life, and you are living your values. There is a good man inside you that wants to help you.
Let this anger get out of you, and you transform into a more lovable individual!
