'Extra marital Affair'... the term itself is treated as a abusive word and definitely not accepted by the society... so will be pre marital sex and live - in relationships... but my question is, if these are accepted by the society, then why not a 'Extra marital affair'??? Well, many of you may start thinking negative out me... but, let us actually try differentiating between an 'affair' and a 'relation'...

To start with any 'affair' is more or less limited to physical attraction, at a major extent... the love and togetherness in these is not seen... as time passes by, both the partners are likely to lose interest in one another and this is an 'end' of the 'affair'...

Now the question arises, 'why do we have to take up an extra marital relationship ever'???

Let’s list down the reasons...

Before treating your partner like an insect as soon as you come to know about their relationship with other... think for a moment... are you the reason for all this? in many cases, when you fail to understand or pay heed to the preferences of your partner and posses an attitude of 'me' rather than 'us',  your partner is likely to find someone who would fill this gap...

'You are married... still you are alone... even now if you have a problem or a disturbance, your partner will be your last choice to share your feelings with'... this happens when there is a huge communication gap between you and your partner... it would not take much of a time for you or your partner to find someone else, who can fill this bridge...

finding a soul mate... it is not necessary, your partner, with whom you are in a relationship legally, has to be your soul mate... it could be because of compromise, parents will or attraction turned into love, you got married... but, you are still in a way to find your soul mate... in this situation, it is likely to get into a relationship with another person, irrespective of both of your marital status, if you find him/her to be your soul mate...

If you sit down and Judge what is wrong or right... there is no hard and fast rule that 'this' has to be right, either... all that matters is your Happiness...