What??? Still in the process of thinking? Now, this is where the problem is... we women many times end up in the process of thinking on how our life and things should be but fail to implement the same. Reason being??? Fear… fear from the society, fear from implementing your thoughts, fear from your family… fear from what people would think on you changing your personality or I would say implementing your original self…

This fear is what that is making we women weaker from the opposite gender… this fear of we being weak being accepted by us is making others to rule us, our lives, abuse us without our concern…

Are you not independent? In what way you are lesser from others? Can’t you earn and live your life on your terms? Can’t you be strong? Can’t you say ‘no’ to what you don’t like and do whatever you like?

Even in this so called World of globalization, we are still in a position of not able to find justice to all or any problem faced by us…

Even today, we hear the case of sexual abuse almost every day, married women being harassed by husband and in – laws, women sold in the name of marriage, being cheated by their boyfriend in the name of love and what not?

If you start finding on the mistake, then my dear, the mistake is at your end in many scenarios… what measures are we taking on our safety and happy life? Why do we trust others without properly knowing them, giving our lives to them and later repenting on being cheated? In many situations not even considering our basic security, we end up going for parties or going out at nights alone and inviting problems that become a question to our lives… in the name of patience, we bearing all the abuse from our family, partner and in – laws till it becomes a curse to our life and sometimes not even opening our mouth even after facing the abuse for life time…

The abuse need not be physical every time… oral abuse with harsh words can also cause heart break in us… what is the need to bear all these???

Women… wake up… before fulfilling the expectations on the rest put on us, start fulfilling what you want in your life and how you want your life actually to be. Be smart enough to be on a safe zone and avoid any unwanted problem… be clever enough to give back the abuse you face from your family or relatives for the very first time if not from today onwards… be tough… let people hate you, treat you as arrogant, but at least you be happy at the cost of being arrogant at least…

Now, don’t just think on what I said, instead implement and see how life changes according to your terms…