The 'ego' factor in the relationship

February 27, 2013 13:28
The 'ego' factor in the relationship

Every human is bound to have ego. Only the percentage of possessing it and at what time, on who you are possessing your ego matters a lot. In fact, many of the most perfect relationships will come to an end because the ego in both the partners gets high and neither of them is willing to step down.

If you value your relationship to the priority and nothing anything else, even the ego and proving who is right or wrong, then here are some ways to burn down your ego and make your relationship survive.

After all, burning down your ego and taking a first step no matter even if it is every time, in order to work your relationship itself is a major positive change for your relationship to work out.

There will be n number of situations almost every day where you might be right at your point and your partner at his/her point. Every time you will get temped to defend yourself to be right. But understand it is just a point of you and every individual has his/her point of view on any situation and would be confident on his thought process being right. If you want your relationship to survive in a peace every day, to express your view on the situation, but don't be tempted to prove your thought to be right. This is where the 'space' in the relationship comes into picture. You can always respect and understand your partner's thoughts and emotional status and yet do things according to your way. Over here, you are not forcing any to accept and do things according your way. By keeping aside the point of discussion that will many times lead to argument, you are letting your partner live in peace and you will live in peace as well.

Your ego can definitely worsen any situation and conversation. So, if you are discussing about anything with your partner, don't lose your temper and downsize the other person even if he is wrong. Just let your point to be understood by the other person and leave the issue then and there. Remember, rather than winning in a situation or a argument, it is important to win your partner's heart so be matured, never prolong any discussion and give the required space to your partner, be calm and composed even at the toughest situation and even when you have known the worst about partner. For sure, you will get that true love your always strived for, for the life time.

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