In our day to day life, may be because of the tensions and worries, we might any time feel that there should be a person on whom we can rely on and explain them about our worries.
But remember, that there might be few situations in life where you have to stay without any of your loved ones. Because no relation is actually guaranteed these days.
So the remedy for this is, start loving and interacting to yourselves. Realize that it is only you who can experience the feel of your own pain. So analyze all the pros and cons of the problem you are facing, think twice about all the situations you face after taking a decision any only then go forward.
If you feel that there is no harm to you or your people by taking it or if at all there is any harm, can it be sorted out in future by the decision you take now or not ? , analyze this way, the best decision can only be taken then.