It is so wise and a matured way to handle any problem, if we just restrict our anger and blame the situation rather than the people involved in the same. It is so difficult to inculcate this kind of a thought process, but it is for sure not impossible. Once we make ourselves used to cope up with any kind of situations, based on the situations itself, then half of our problems are solved. Now, we need to work on solving the rest half of the problems by handling the same. So, here are some tips for you to look into, to cope up with different/difficult situations;
It is always better to keep a check on your temper, when you are handling some tough situations. There are all the chances for you to lose your temper as most of the times, these situations would be more or less, at least some percent related to your emotional state of mind as well. So, it is better to look into handling the situation rather than getting carried away by the same.
Just think for a while in other person’s shoes. Everyone has their own reasons to do or not to do anything or everything. For you it might be a disguise, but for other person the deed done by them might be absolutely right. It is no harm in thinking from other person’s perspective, at times even when you are the victim. Well, to adapt this kind of a thought process, lot of hard work has to be done though.
There is all the possibility of somewhere or the other, you being one of the root causes in creating this kind of a situation that could even become a question mark to your life. Well, when the root cause of the problem is found, to diagnose the same would not take much of the time.
Never ever either pity or just convince yourself to be innocent, if you are actually not, for the situation occurred. Be bold and real enough to accept the mistakes done and work on solving them rather than just dumping the blame on others. This way you would just inculcate the habit of blaming others and running from situations. The first method of coping with the situations suggested might be difficult to implement initially, but once you are used to it, you would never ever think of just running from the situations or people or responsibilities.
Planning is definitely a good sign of leading a more peaceful and responsible life. But at times, just accepting the situations that have just come your way all of a sudden can also prove your wise ness in regard to the same. so, rather than cribbing please accept the life as it comes.
You might have encountered lot of people who just want to either escape or not at all interfere in any situation, because they just want their life to be safe. Getting into a problem is definitely not a good sign, but not responding to the same even when required is also not acceptable. So, just transform your thought process in such a way that the situation should speak your mind.
Just talk about coping up with people who possess different mentalities, tomorrow!
SunayanaVinay Kumar
