Gautami is a very senior actress in Tamil Film Industry. She is the wife of Tamil superstar Kamal Haasan. The couple has been together for 13 years. But today the actress herself confirmed that she and Kamal Haasan are not together anymore.
She wrote a blog post titled "Life and decisions" on November 1, 2016. In the blog, she confirmed the news. She also explained the cause for the split.
She said that she was married to businessman Sandeep Bhatia in 1998. The couple even has a daughter named Subbalakshmi born in 1999. But the couple split in 1999. Since 2005, she got married Kamal Haasan. Kamal Haasan and Gautami met on the sets of "Apoorva Sagodharargal" in 1989. That time the couple didn't have intentions to marry as they did not believe in marriage.
In the blog, the actress said that their paths changed and that she was fighting to settle with things since two years. The news about their separation is unbearable for her. She said that announcing about her divorce is not a public stunt to seek sympathy or blame the actor. Here is her complete blog:
“It is heartbreaking for me to have to say today that I and Mr. Haasan are no longer together. After almost 13 years together, it has been one of the most devastating decisions that I have ever had to make in my life. It is never easy for anyone in a committed relationship to realize that their paths have irreversibly diverged and that the only choices in front of them are to either compromise with their dreams for life or to accept the truth of their solitude and move ahead. It has taken me a very long time, a couple of years at the very least, to accept this heartbreaking truth and come to this decision.
It is not my intention to seek sympathy or assign blame. I have understood through my life that change is inevitable and human nature will define that change for each individual. Not all of these changes might be what we expect or anticipate but that does not, in any way, negate the very real impact of these diverging priorities in a relationship. This decision to set forth on my own at this stage in my life is perhaps one of the most difficult decisions any woman will ever have to make but it is a necessary one for me. For I am a mother first and foremost and I have a responsibility to my child to be the best mother that I can be. And to do that, it is essential that I am at peace within myself.
It is no secret that I have always been a fan of Mr. Haasan's since before I came to the film industry and I continue to admire and cheer on his monumental talent and achievements. I have stood by him through all his challenges and they have been precious moments for me. I have also learned a great deal from working with him as costume designer on his films and I'm proud that I was able to do justice to his creative vision in those films. Along with all of his accomplishments to date, I know that there is much more to come from him for his audience and I look forward to applauding those successes.
I would like to say that I am sharing this monumental happening in my life because I have always lived my life in your midst, with dignity and grace to the best of my ability at all times, and all of you have been a part of my life's journey in so many ways. I have received so much of love and support from you through the past 29 years and I would like to thank you for the many ways in which you kept me going through the darkest and most painful times in my life.”
With love and regards,
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BY M. DIVYA SRI