‘Swapna, a 39 year old married Woman, and Mother of 13 year Old boy… he Husband is a Software Professional, possessing a challenging and responsible role at top management level in a well-known MNC. Her kid is in his early teens and no more wants his Mother’s interference in his daily routine. In short, Swapna is leading a decent life style, with not much of tension, but, more or less, she is all alone… not just Swapna, we all at some point or the other, experience this kind of mindset or life style… this is what we call a ‘Mid Life Crises’, where all our loved ones would be busy with their own life and ambitions, and would no more seek our attention. Though we are matured enough to understand them and know they do love us, but their priorities have changed, it is not necessary that our mind set should be the same at all the times… ‘
But, whatever happens life has to go on… and if we are alone or surrounded with people around us, our life style should never change… keeping this in mind, just move ahead and look forward to handle midlife crises to be a bliss…
Take time out for yourself. Just pamper your mind, body and soul. Be it shopping, learning a new form of art or any other extra-curricular activity, or spending time with your old friends… every day, at least for some hours, just live for yourself, forgetting all the crises you are undergoing.
You are leading a much decent and happy life style. But, there are n numbers of people, who are striving for their livelihood as well. Why don’t you lend a helping hand to them? It is not money that dictates terms in all the scenarios. A bit more attention, care and affection is required to all those needy, that you can think of giving to them.
You might not agree with me, but it is an age old fact that Cribbing for nothing and everything is the inherent nature Woman. Can’t we change this identity of us? Can’t we understand the situation much better, understand loved ones around us, give that required space to them and strive to make our relationships healthy, rather than putting all our stress and bad mood on our loved ones also?
Try let going things and accept the situation as it is. Certain situations and things would not be in your hand and the more you strive of holding it back, chances of you losing it are more. So, do not lose your, self-respect at any cost. Just be calm and composed no matter what the situation is.
No emotion would last longer. There would be a change over at stage and phase. So, just wait for that good time, rather than living in a disguise.
Do not scatter doing nothing and just waiting for the time to pass on. Remember, nothing should rule you, not even the time… it is you, who would master ‘You’!
