Man/woman is a social animal and love plays a key role in making his/her life sail smooth. A pinch of affection that you shower on the depressed has the power to pull them out of the monotony. "The hunger for love is much more difficult to remove than the hunger for bread," said Mother Terasa, which is obviously true. But then instead of waiting to be loved and falling in the trap of love hunger, one can simply avoid it by loving oneself, and when you love yourself, you will not only lead a happy life but a life, which is king size.

Here are some best ways to keep yourselves happy even if you are not loved by some xyz.

Take life as a lesson:
You should always take life as a lesson, as said by many philosophers. Every bit of life that you experience has something to offer and also something to teach. So, why cry over something, which teaches you the best. And also never develop hatred towards someone or even on yourself. If you are guilty of something, let it go off and try not to commit the same thing in future and if someone behaved wrongly with you or had upset you, try to forgive if you can. If not, then go away from them and forget them forever. This would be better instead of remembering and cursing them day and night as it would only spoil your peace of mind.

Writing:
Recording your personal experiences is one of the best ways to love yourself. Pen down the happy and sad moments too. When you write the sad moments, you will relieve yourself and whenever you feel depressed go through the happier moments, which you penned down in your diary.

Unconditional:
If you love or like someone, make sure that no conditions creep in. To accept someone unconditionally is actually the true love and when you don't like someone for some reason then you will gradually start disliking you when you do something, which according to you is unethical. Love unconditionally and don't expect the same from the others, which will keep you happy.

Be consistent:
Always be consistent. Your emotions should not fluctuate. Over happiness during bright moments and extreme sadness during dull times stand as good example of emotional instability. Learn to accept happier and sad moments equally. Then nothing on earth can really effect your happiness.

Don't care hurdles: You want to do something and others are opposing your idea. So, would you do at that moment? Will you sacrifice your dreams for others' love? Well, that might sound bright in typical movies but let me tell you that it would be foolish to give up your dreams. Do whatever you like, and as long as you enjoy it, give a damn to what others feel. Chase your dreams as they are the ones, which will make you stand on top of the world!

Live the life to the fullest...live life king size!

(AW Phani)